by Anishametra Saravanan  

What if I told you there’s a way to attain anything you desire and be the most powerful person in the room? 

Spoiler alert: it’s not voodoo but it’s just as cool. Enter the world of body language – the closest thing to mindreading and a skill anyone (yes, even you!) can learn. 

You may be wondering, ‘But how could body language possibly pave the way for my life’s ambitions?’ To that, your answers lie in 4 simple points:  

Non-verbal cues, like gestures and expressions, pack a punch that words alone can’t match.

For example, today I stopped by a coffee shop and saw a woman twirling her hair while talking to a man, a man discussing a business deal on the phone suddenly began to bounce his feet up and down and a guy on his laptop nervously biting his nails off.

With body language knowledge, you can immediately assume that the woman is attracted to the guy, the businessman is excited about a deal and the guy on his laptop is nervous about something. This much info speaks volumes—all without them uttering a single word.

By honing your awareness of body language, you’re all set to develop a sixth sense in your interactions. This heightened perception enables you to read the room effortlessly while being able to navigate social dynamics with finesse. It’s your secret weapon for being one step ahead in understanding and connecting with the people around you. Think of it as having a backstage pass to the human experience! 

Mastering body language puts you in the driver’s seat and it’s time to cash in on those skills to master the big R-N-C trinity:

• • Relationships  

Ever feel like you’re on the same wavelength as your colleagues or that special someone without even saying a word? That’s the magic of understanding non-verbal cues. It’s like having your own secret language that deepens connections and helps you build meaningful bonds with the people you care about. 

• • Negotiations  

The next time you’re in a high-stakes conversation and instead of just hearing words, you’re decoding the other person’s every and next move. Before you know it, you’re one step ahead and sealing the deal like a total pro. 

• • Career 

You can be the one who commands attention in meetings, exudes confidence, and leaves a lasting impression in the office. Whether you’re a team player or a rising star, your non-verbal cues are here to be your career allies, propelling you to new heights and making sure you stand out in the professional crowd. 

Being the top dog in the room isn’t about being overbearing. It’s about using your body language superpowers to build connections, inspire confidence and lead with authenticity. So, whether you’re at a party or a professional meeting, your mastery of body language makes you the person everyone wants in their corner. It’s not just influence; it’s influence done in style.

Ready to unlock the world with your newfound body language mojo? Start building those non-verbal cues and witness doors to opportunities swing wide open for you.

Source:

Science of People